4 tips to make your man want to 'die there'

Happy Sunday readers, am sure all the girls want to read this eheh.

So, you think you found the perfect guy. You're clicking on the emotional front, and now you want to leave a lasting impression in the bedroom too.
So what's the big secret? It's not all about knock- his-socks-off sex. When it comes to keeping a guy's interest, the way you approach sex can make all
the difference. So follow these four basic rules to keep him coming back for more.

1. Don't be a tease, but don't be a sure thing either
What many women — and men, for that matter — sometimes fail to realize is that there's a very fine line between being a tease and being playful. If you deny him gratification too often or for too long, he'll probably lose interest and begin to build resentment. While there should never be an expectation of sex, once that expectation has been created, it's very difficult to remove it without creating serious tension.

On the flip side, while men are inherently lazy and do love a sure thing, you also don't want us to take you for granted. Plus, if you're always available to satisfy him, he'll think you're no longer a challenge (and most men love a challenge). So if you can turn down a booty call every now and then, or say no to sex sometimes when you're not really up for it, he's actually going to want to see you more and make more effort.
What she does to make you feel like "the man"


2. Make him a believer, but don't oversell it
Here's something that isn't exactly a secret: Men all like to think that they're "the man." So, you need to make him feel like he's doing something right. I can't stress enough the importance of playing to the male ego and placating his inevitable insecurities about penis size, stamina and the ability to bring you to orgasm. So if you're not fully satisfied, don't simply fake it for his sake; instead, communicate to him about what is working and praise him for the things he does do well. When a man feels consistently insecure about his ability to please his partner, he may get the urge to duck and run. A sincere compliment here and there will keep him focused on doing better by you in bed, instead of finding someone who's easier to please.


3.  Under-promise,  over-deliver
As far as the bedroom is concerned, avoid creating false expectations at all costs. For example, no guy wants to hear about how great you are at giving fellatio if you're not going to perform it on him. And if you promise to "rock his world" and then don't? Well, you're setting him up for disappointment. It's
good to be confident, but the less you promise, the less expectation you create and the more pleasant a surprise you can be for him. And when you're a pleasant surprise, there's usually going to be an encore performance; he'll want to see what else you have in your bag of tricks.

4. Desire is key
Most women think great sex is all about the performance. Now, don't get me wrong — if you're really great at something and enjoy doing it, by all means, go right ahead. But it's important to remember that simply expressing a desire for your guy makes a man feel sexually powerful, and making him feel wanted will make him want you even more. So don't forget to let him know how badly you want him in as much detail as you feel comfortable with. It will be a big turn-on for him, even if you aren't the most experienced or skilled at any particular act.

7 Things U Can Never Change In A Guy.

This one if for the ladies. I don't know who gathered this but the person must be well experienced. Overtime you notice instead of a change, you and your spouse keep having quarrels that's when you know you should just leave him with it. There are some attitude you can't change, read it below

1. HIS PASSION FOR HIS FAVOURITE TEAM: Ever heard d saying "football is life"? Yes it is, and only a few things can cum btw a guy n his luv 4 his favourite team. Even wen u r both attending a dinner party or wedding ceremony, he'll always find time 2 check d score and trust me, he'll be depressed when they lose, no matter d amount of fun around him. I sometimes tease my gal by telling her dat if we were 2 marry n d date of d wedding coincides wit a Manchester United fixture, she had beta postpone d wedding or d groom (me) will go missing, only 2 be found in a football center cheering my beloved team. So ladies, instead of trying 2 stop him, try supporting his team n he'll luv u a little more.

2. HIS LOVE FOR HIS MUM: A guy's luv 4 his mum is one thing a gal shud neva tamper with. Yes he luvs u, but whether good or bad, his mum is high up there in his heart. So don't sweat it or try 2 cum btw him n his mum, cos u'll only be walking on a minefield dat will explode on u. STAY OFF and create a connection or luv his mum if u want him 2 luv u much more.

3. HIS LOVE FOR BOTTLES: If beer is one of his favourite things in life, let him enjoy it wen he wants 2, so far he's not getting drunk n misbehaving.

4. FAMILY ISSUES: Do not try 2 bring d roof down on him or try 2 force him 2 luv ur relatives. As long as he's making appropriate efforts 2wards them, don't
make a fight out of it.

5. HE DOESN'T TALK MUCH: Not every guy likes chitchat ting or talking so much abt their feelings. If ur guy is one who likes 2 keep his words in check, let him be and don't try 2 make a talkative out of him.

6. HE NOTICES OTHER PRETTY GALS: It's only normal dat a guy appreciates d wonderful work of God by taking a glance when he sees one. So nagging and wanting him 2 shut his eyes when he sees a pretty girl is a big NO-NO. Enjoy d fact dat he luvs u enuf 2 be wit u.

7. HIS ONE BAD HABIT: Every guy and even gals have at least one bad habit, like picking of nose, biting of fingernails, etc. Instead of letting it bring u 2 to frequent fights, try 2 put up wit it, knowing dat nobody is perfect.
Do you agree with all?

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saw this post on a popular and i thought this would be good for my Akungba people who do not use protection before sex, this is very dangerous, you do not know what virus your partner is  carrying. Especially for the girls, you'll must watch this.

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Mom was having sex with male friend while her kids died in hot car

The mother of the two boys who died of hyperthermia has been arrested. Authorities say they found out she was having sex with her boyfriend while the kids were left alone for two hours with the heat on in the car. (The boys and their father pictured above) The story below...

A mother whose children died after she locked them in the car with a heater running, while she had sex in another vehicle, is on trial for homicide.

Prosecutors say Heather Jensen, 25, carried out a "death sentence" against her two young sons when she locked then in the hot car, Fox 31 Denver reports.

The charges against Ms Jensen include criminally negligent homicide, child abuse resulting in death and false reporting. Continue...

"Ms Jensen created the situation that caused her children to die," prosecutor Danielle Lewis said in opening statements.

Her defence says her actions should be assessed with regard to her low IQ, her youth and the fact her husband died six weeks earlier in a car accident.

"It was a tragedy, but it was an accident. It was not a crime," said public defender Elsa Archambault.
Ms Jensen sobbed loudly as her trial opened last week in Mesa County District Court, Colorado.

Ms Jensen’s sons, William, 2, and 4-year-old Tyler, died on November 27, 2012. She told her new live-in boyfriend she was taking the boys to play in the snow and drove them to a snow park, where she met up with a male friend to have sex in the car park.

At first, she left the two boys in the car with the heat on and the doors unlocked.

After about 30 minutes, Tyler opened the door and Ms Jensen returned him to her car, gave him a mobile phone to play with and secured the child locks before returning to her friend.

The children are said to have spent 90 minutes in the car, where an investigation revealed temperatures could have reached 60 degrees Celsius. Both boys died from hyperthermia.

Ms Jensen’s defence attributes her poor decision making to her low IQ of 76, which makes her borderline developmentally disabled.

A boyfriend also told investigating police that Ms Jensen had smoked marijuana the day before the children died.

In the three months leading up to the deaths, she had failed court-ordered drug tests three times, the Daily Sentinel reports. The testing was tied to a March 2012 arrest for domestic violence. Her husband Eric had told police Ms Jensen became violent after he confronted her about spending time with friends who supplied her with painkillers Vicodin and Percocet.

Following the deaths of her sons, Ms Jensen also violated the terms of her probation and left Colorado for Florida, to be with her family.
"I believe it would be a great opportunity for me to start my life over again in Florida, and being surrounded by all my family who loves me to help me get through the losses I’ve had in this past month," Ms Jensen wrote in the letter to a Mesa County judge. "And I would greatly appreciate it if you will let me move on with my life in Florida."

Ms Jensen's request was denied and she was arrested at her mother's home in North Fort Myers, Florida on January 16, 2013.

The jury deciding the case was made up of 10 women and five men, but a judge removed one of the jurors from the trial when he found out she added a witness from the trial as a friend on Facebook, CBS Denver reports. The trial is expected to run for nine days.

13 Things You say That piss Girlfriends off

Earlier, i posted a write-up listing ten things you should not say boyfriend and promised to post things boyfriends should not say to their girl friends. Again, this one was written by another person on nairaland

"Well, it is not only the guys that have things they hate about ladies, we too have been tolerating you. Forget those smiles and winks, forget those blushes, if only you can see our hearts. I will be writing on things you say that we hate. For God sake, don't ever think you are on top of your game. Most time, it is the need to socialize that allows us to listen to most of your boring talks. Gosh, here are 13 of them that makes me want to rip a man's head off.


1. Random Smile Requests

What has to be the worst of the things men say that women hate is that we hate to smile. Don't hate me because I'm beautiful, but more often than not I am asked to share a grin while minding my own business. You see a woman on the road or stopping to buy something in a store and all you do is walk up to her and ask her to smile. What da?? Guns should be legalized!!!

2. Dissin’ Your Job

Perhaps you're not exactly using your university degree. This doesn't give a man the right to pat you on the head and brush off your moneymaker as "just a job." In today’s economy he should be glad you’re employed, period! If you don't work, they look at you as a gold digger. If you do, they get scared and refuse to approach you. Men, you just have to live with it. Housewives don't exist anymore. What we have now is called, "Career Wives".

3. When He Describes Another Woman

There is nothing wrong with giving harmless compliments. We girls are guilty of looking twice at a hot dude, right? However, even the most confident woman doesn't want to hear her man go on and on about how big someone's butt is. Oh my God, Ada, Amaka's Bottom is what me and my colleague call a mountain. Mba, unless you want a fork in your eyes, do not talk about my friend's butt in that manner.

4. It's Complicated

Seriously, girls, any man over the age of 18 knows what he wants, or doesn't want, in a relationship. It’s time for him to define the status! He knows what he likes in a car and in a sneaker; his choice in a woman is no different. Either he's all in or he's not, so don't accept things as merely "complicated." What's so complicated about making choice hun?

5. His Take on plus-sized Women

Just because I'm a size eight doesn't give me the right to make fun of voluptuous women. Same holds true for the men. Yet, I have been on several short-lived dates where I've the line "I don't like fat chicks!" managed to fall out of the mouths of idiots. Tell me I’m not alone here!   

6. The Infamous Cat Calls

In what is borderline intimate harassment, a cat call gets on my last nerve! What is a cat call, you ask? By all means, take your pick: hey baby; yo, baby; baby girl. Clearly, some men have a deep-seated issue with parenting, or the lack thereof. Cat calls are annoying, demeaning, and ridiculous!   

7. His Sex Drive

Men like to impress women by boasting about how skilled he is in the bedroom. Somewhere, they were told that talking about what they can do to us is a good idea. Unless there is a video available for download, he shouldn't be bragging about his sex drive. A real man doesn’t have to brag, anyway. However, it makes for an interesting challenge though. Truth or dare, anyone?   

8. Talking about Their Ex

Whether he is comparing or talking trash about her, the fact is you don’t want to hear about his ex. We don’t care if she would always burn everything she cooked, didn’t help pay rent, or wore oversized outfits. Women want to know how you like their cooking, how you appreciate their help, and how much you love the way their jeans fit. However, we don’t want to hear how much better than your ex we are. Simple!!! 

9. If You Love Me Then

This is a big no-no... right, ladies?! How much do you hate it when your guy says, “Well, if you love me then you’ll do this for me?”...not! Yes, we love you, but if you love us you wouldn’t say things like that. Grow out of it. You can never put us in a tight corner.  

10. Dissin’ Your Friends

Other than dissin’ our job, men should also know better than to diss our friends, especially one that we’ve known since childhood. Your friend may not be perfect, but she’s always there when you need her. So what if she’s always running late or she loves her wine? As long as she isn’t taking advantage of you, he should respect that she’s always going to be your friend. He doesn’t have to like her, but just be respectful. A word is enough, unless you want me running off on our wedding day.  

11. You’re Just like Your Mother

Oh no he didn’t! Not only is he dissin’ your mother, but he is also dissin’ you! So, by saying you’re just like your mother, does he not like your mom? Also, if your mom does have her issues, is he saying that you have those issues too? It’s just not a place he really wants to go, so guys, don’t go there! Put a tape on your mouth. Women could be violent too you know  

12. You Remind Me of My Mother

Other than hearing we’re just like our own mother, we also don’t want to hear that we remind you of your mother! Even if your boyfriend’s or husband’s mother is amazing, we just don’t want to hear it. The relationship men have with their wives shouldn’t be compared to the one he has with his mom. Cut that hand that you use in holding tight to your mother's wrapper. Some men are still boys, calling their mum into everything. 

13. Are You   ?

We’ve all been there and have heard it since our teen years from guys and girls: “Is it that time of the month?” or “Are you seeing it?” Do they really want the answer to that?! Although we’ve heard it from some of our girl friends, it is just worse when we hear it from a guy. Our girls can relate and will actually help us eat a tub of ice cream! However, no guy will ever understand, so they just shouldn’t ask!   


So these are a few of the topics, filled with things men say that women hate. It’s about time the fellows know that silence is golden. Here’s a tip for the men reading this: shut the hell up! Ladies, do you have any more to add to this list? What things do men say that make your blood boil?"

what do you have to say?

10 Things You Should Never Say To Your Boyfriend

For my female readers, this one is for y'all. i strongly  recommend numbers 1 & 5. personally as a man, sorry child i have only a little problem  with the rest of them but different strokes for different folks. Hold on, what am i saying do i even have a gf? eheh no. People ask me alot on bbm why i use pictures of girls for display picture i dont even know why, if you want my picture ask me i'll send. Now lets get to the deal, this write up was originally posted by

Foxy_Flow on nairaland forum

Seriously, women love lies. Like that thread telling us not to tell them they are fat. O please, you guys need to take a chill pill. I remember starting a thread where I said a girl broke up with her boyfriend because he was a liar. How? Instead of telling her 9:00pm, he will tell her 8:00pm is the time for movies so she would hurry up. Men aint that way, we are really good. 

We don't take lies and I will be stating down 10 things you should never say to us. Forget say we go bone, e dey pain us inside our bones. 

1) "My ex did the exact same thing!"

Na wetin?!! This is really bad. No guy wants to hear that he has any semblance with your goddamn ex. If he is exactly like your ex, you should have stuck to your ex na, moreover, it brings his self esteem down by a notch. Next time you see a deja vu, please keep it to yourself. Your boyfriend might bail out on you.

2) "Helen's pregnant ... Shhhh"

Women do this a lot. They take our listening attitude for gossip. You go ahead to tell your boyfriend about the most intimate secret of your friend. My dear, you are not being sociable, you are being ameboable. Please, keep the issue of your friend being pregnant, having gono-cacus, yeast infection etc, out of reach of our ears. If we spill the beans (which we don't do anyway), your friend will be mad at you, not us.

3) "When we're married/have kids..."

What are you thinking? The moment a girl starts telling me how she wants to have kids for me, I take up my shoe, dust it and escape for my life. You should never mention this to your boyfriend. Even if the guy have all it takes to make you happy forever, just keep that thought to yourself. Have you noticed this, for the married ladies. The day you told your husband you are pregnant. What was his reaction? Shock abi? Well, men tend to dey little humans quickly before realizing they are married to you.

4) "Do You Think She's Pretty?"

This question is a double edged sword. If you ask me, well, I know I can't win. If your boyfriend answers the question with "yes", you get jealous and takes him for a flirt. If he says "NO", and she is clearly beautiful, you call him a liar. And finally when he manages to convince you that he doesn't find her attractive at all, you go to bed thinking of his bad tastes about you. My dear, stop asking questions like that, you will only get hurt by the answers.

5) "I'm fine" or "Never mind"

You know na, e no go complete without including this one. You are silent for the past one hour, snapped at the chair after hitting your leg to it and then you answer "I'm fine." This answer is really not right. Your boyfriend begins to have an inner battle with himself, maybe he had done something or said something out of context that you are not telling him. Well, the moment you think you are okay, your passive-agression has subsided could be the time his own is just starting. Watch it!!!

6) "I just let one go"

We know you use the bathroom for other things like shyte, fart et al but we still want to believe that you only go there to apply make-up, lipstick and to pee. Do not come out telling us how strong your shyte is or how your fart nearly choked you. We might find it funny and even laugh at it but you begin to lose your sexiness with us. Now we cannot blame the dog anymore, any smell we hear automatically points to you as the culprit.

7) "I'll try anything once!"

You know na. That BJ and other fantasies. If you don't/can't do it, do not raise our hopes high. Haba  

8-) "Are you sure you're okay?"

You know this situation. Your boyfriend is unusually quiet, you begin to bug him with "honey, are you okay?" over and over again. You ask him this like 1 million times and each time his answers doesn't satisfy you, you still re-ask the same question. Let me sound this clear. We are humans, we have our bad day too, we could be tired or not in the mood to talk. Please and please, allow us snap out of it. You don't have to wait for us to scream at you and tell you to stop disturbing us.

9) "I hate my thighs"

You are your own worst critic, please don't recruit us. If we are not attracted to you in the first place, we would never have approached you. Forget about some men chasing anything that wear skirt, they too have what attracts them to those walking baboons. Men like women with self confidence and not the other way round so please, stop dissing your self in our presence. It makes us notice the flaws which we did not see before. We could be put off you know.

10) "I hate your mom"

Okay, this sounds oyinbo. I will bring it down to Naija levels. If you don't like your man's friend, dog or mother   then be diplomatic. You don't have to like everything in your man's life but you really need to trust his judgment. Sha, the day you say you hate my mother, that day you will learn what violence really entails and uhm, your ghana-must-go finds its way outside my house. Men, shun violence sha.


Ladies, learn from this and stop telling us not to tell you the truth. If you are getting fat, I will tell you. If you are getting leaner than usual, I will take you to a lab for test. Madams, men are truthful beings, truth hurts sometime you know.....

Things that girls hate coming soon.
pls in jesus name post your critics in the comment box lol

Schoolgirl gang-raped by five men as she walked home when she was 13 but was left so traumatised she didn't tell anyone for three years

• Girl, 13, was attacked in an alleyway and dragged into a nearby field
• Police release e-fit of the main suspect in the 'terrifying assault'
• Victim was attacked as she walked home in Rayleigh, Essex, in 2011
• She was so traumatised she could not tell her mother for three years
• Mother then urged the schoolgirl to tell police of the attack

A 13-year-old girl who was gang-raped by five men was left so traumatised by the ‘terrifying assault’ that she could not tell police or even her own mother for three years.

The schoolgirl was attacked as she walked home through an alleyway and was dragged into a nearby field where she was assaulted.

The five male attackers, who were all described as being between 25 and 35 years old, struck as the girl walked through the narrow path inRayleigh, Essex, at around 9.30pm on February 24, 2011.

However, the young victim had kept a three-year silence about the attack before telling her mother who urged her to report the case to the police.

Detective constable Danny Cooper said: 'This was a terrifying assault by five men on a girl who was aged 13 at the time.

'She was traumatised and remained scared of the men until she found the courage to tell her mother what had happened.'

Specially trained officers from Essex Police’s Sexual Offences Investigation Team have now interviewed the victim and released an E-fit of one of the main suspects.

DC Cooper added: 'We want to hear from anyone in the area of the Birds Estate who has any information about this incident or from anyone who can identify the man in the E-fit who was the main perpetrator.

'He is described as being white, between 5ft 8 to 9in tall, with thick dark-coloured eyebrows and pronounced jawline and cheek bones. 

'At the time he had spikey gelled hair.'

PHOTO: Fashion Mess! Lady steps out with no bra, showing off too much...See HERE

So many thinks she looks like Beat Fm OAP, Toke
Makinwa, You think so?

Updates on PreDegree Programme

Lectures for Second Semester for Pre Degree Students has commenced, Venue: Intercontinental Hall. TimeTable is at the Predegree Office

Pre Degree Exam slated for Jan 20 - 22 has been postponed till Further Notice. Sale of Form Still Continues.

Two men are not allowed to lodge into a hotel together – Police

Prior to the Same S3_x Prohibition Act president Jonathan signed into the law drew mixed reactions from most Nigerians. It is learnt that police had already started enforcing the law even before Jonathan signed it. So if the police was already so serious about implementing this law even before it was
signed, expect to see more of such signs. What's your opinion on this?

Check Out The New Commenting System On Exploreaaua

I get complaint mails from some of you stating that the default commenting system on my blog is very complicated and not reader friendly and thats the reason i get sparse commments so i came up with the idea to use a thirdparty commenting system so from now on, y'all have no excuse not to drop a comment here before leaving lol.

 

The new commenting system is called IntenseDebate, i find it a pretty way to encourage higher quality discussion, it allows u to simultaneously tweet when u post a comment. I was also considering enabling the facebook comment instead of this one and i can still enable it if you want. so which do you prefer, intensedebate or facebook comment system?

Scientist of University of Maryland says sex makes you smarter

• Study found rats developed a greater number of brain cells after mating
• This increase in neurons can restore cognitive function, such as memory
• After sexual activity was stopped, improvements in brain power were lost
• A separate study suggests having sex can counteract the effects of stress

 It gives night classes a whole new meaning.
Having sex makes you smarter, research suggests.
A study found that middle-aged rats made more new brain cells after mating.

Researchers at the University of Maryland also credited frequent sexual activity with increased brainpower.
However, the benefits to the brain were lost if the creatures stopped mating.

A second study, also published last year, suggested that having sex counteracts the effect of stress on the brain – at least in mice.
However, while having sex may make you smarter, the converse is not necessarily true.


The Atlantic website reports: ‘Being smarter does not necessarily mean you’ll have more sex.
‘Smarter teens, in fact, tend to delay the initiation of their coital activities.’
In any case, making new brain cells may not be enough.
Psychologist Tracey Shors told a Society for Neuroscience conference that hard work is needed if these cells are to survive.
She said: ‘You can make new cells with exercise, Prozac and sex.
‘If you do mental training, you’ll keep alive more of the cells you produced.
‘And if you do both, now you have the best of both worlds – you’re making more cells and keeping more alive.’

Woman rushed to hospital after THREE-HOUR orgasm

Lol  this one is funny, her man's thing must be magical. I know some Akungba boys would take a hint from this.
For one Seattle woman, a mind-blowing orgasm sent her to heaven - and then to the emergency room. Liz's climax lasted for over three hours before she finally found relief. 
 The vid below

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WTF! A uni now offers Blowjob as a course? pls shoot me.

this picture has gone viral on the internet saying
its a blowjob 101 class in the university of ohio. i dont think its a
class tho but whatever it is, pls share your view on this; would you
like a bj class? ladies ;)